subject: Nice Guy Syndrome [print this page] We've all heard that nice guys finish lastWe've all heard that nice guys finish last. Why is that? Well, it's just that some guys have the nice guy syndrome. It's like a disease that gets into your psyche because you're looking for any way to get to know women. What is this syndrome? Well, it starts with the tendency to go way overboard when it comes to women. It continues with becoming far too sensitive, advances to treating a woman like she's a goddess and allowing her to treat you like a dog, and ends with you becoming boring. So, what's the cure?
Simply put, changing how you act towards women. When it comes to women, you've got to change your behavior from wimp, pushover, and predictable to confident, powerful, and exciting.
You have to do this for you, not for her. See, the nice guy syndrome affects other aspects of your life as well. When you're perceived as someone who has the traits I've just talked about, you're seen as a wimp and a wuss by nearly everyone around you. This will affect more than your dating life; it will affect your friendships, and even your job. In short, the nice guy syndrome can ruin your life. The good news is that by changing how you act will reverse those negative effects.
It all starts with confidence. Learn to be confident in one thing that you do, then build on it. Having confidence will help you develop better relationships with both men and women. But confidence it key when it comes to developing a relationship with women. They won't settle for anything less.
Learn to stay calm. Whether you're in the break room or at a club, remember that talking with women isn't hard. It's just about being relaxed and yourself. If you are the type that feels anxious whenever you think about talking with women, then take action and find a method to quiet that anxiety. It doesn't matter if it's deep breathing, yoga, exercise, or self-help books. Find what works for you.
Have your own interests and talk about them. There's no reason to be so engrossed with women that never share what you like. Women find men that don't have their own lives to be boring and annoying.
Break the nice guy syndrome by becoming better than a nice guy. Great guys finish first. Especially with women.
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