subject: How to Be a Nice Guy and Still Attract Beautiful Women [print this page] It's long been one of those catch 22's about dating. You want to be the nice guy, cause that is just who you are, but at the same time... you know that nice guys usually end up finishing last when it comes to dating. So, some guys either assume that they are always going to have tough luck when it comes to attracting women, or, they decide to start acting like a jerk to get attention from women. What if you could be a nice guy and STILL attract beautiful women?
Sounds like the best of both worlds, doesn't it? You don't have to fake a jerk persona, and you also don't have to be the guy that gets the brush off, either. Here's how to be a nice guy and STILL attract beautiful women:
DON'T BEND OVER BACKWARDS TO GET HER TO LIKE YOU...
My friend used to be a bouncer in a nightclub for awhile, and I used to go out there once in a blue moon to hang out and take in a night of just having fun, meeting women. I'll never forget this one time I met this girl, she was really good looking, and she had come to the club with this guy who was just a friend. All night long, she was flirting with this guy and that guy, and her friend was constantly doing little favors for her just to make her feel "comfortable."
Though she was pretty, she wasn't my type, I found another girl that night. But, I did spot her go home with some guy she met that night, and her guy friend that probably spent a good $ 50 plus his time and energy? He went home alone. You can be the nice guy and not bend over backwards like that to get her to like you. It doesn't make you feel good, and it usually ends up with you getting the short end of the stick.
LEARN HOW TO MAKE HER WORK FOR YOUR ATTENTION...
If you don't ever make a woman work for your attention, then you are not ever going to build up the kind of sexual tension and friction that leads to attraction. All you are going to do is end up being the classic best friend, the guy she goes out with, but NOT the one that she ends up going home with. You have to make a woman work for your attention once in a while, it cannot always be a one way street with her.
How to Be a Nice Guy and Still Attract Beautiful Women
