subject: My Wife Ended Affair - Will She Go Back to Him? [print this page] It is an unpleasant situation to deal with when your relationship hits a hard bump in the road, and your wife decides to have an affair with another man. Luckily, she chose to end it and come back to you, but, understandably, this has left you reeling emotionally, and wondering if you can keep her happy.
Now, you're in a situation where you want to prevent divorce and win your wife back forever. The thing that you must first understand is that she reached out to the other guy for a reason. It wasn't to hurt you and make you feel bad. It was because she felt she wasn't getting something from you that she needed.
Maybe she has told you what this need is, and maybe not. Sometimes, couples just want to forget about a bad experience like this, and carry on as if nothing had happened. However, you both know that it did happen, and you're worried that it could happen again.
You're in a position where, winning your wife back before it's too late is absolutely necessary to your future happiness. Therefore, it's urgent that you figure out what it is that she needs from you, and what she's currently not getting. It would help if you two could sit down and openly talk about this with each other.
However, this may not be possible right now for various reasons. Maybe she doesn't know how to express what she needs, but feels something is missing in your relationship. These kind of emotional issues can be very complex. Not everyone is comfortable talking about their deep feelings.
But, you can't have her running off to this guy again when the mood strikes her. So, you've got to do some things on your end to get her to see you in an entirely new light. Winning your wife's heart back means you'll need to make some changes in your own life.
A woman is attracted to a man who is self-confident, fully engaged in life, and attentive to her needs. Now, there are many things that you can do to impress her. Mostly, small gestures that let her know that you care and appreciate her being a part of your life.
When she sees that you are willing to work on being a better husband, she'll be less likely to look elsewhere for love and affection.
