subject: Wondering How to Get My Ex Back----Here Are Three Tips [print this page] If you are reading this and have lost your ex you have come to the right place. In your strategy of how to get my ex back, these three tips should be followed.
Step one
cut off all communication with your ex. Use none of the various methods that you usually employ to get in contact with your boyfriend/girlfriend. I know this is the opposite of what you really want to do but, trust me, this step is essential in your plan of how to get your ex back.
Step two
Figure out what went wrong. Spend a lot of time on the step. Really study your relationship and the breakup to pinpoint where problems started. If you think the problems started in the last month, look over the last year. Usually you find out there were earlier problems going on that caused the breakup.Spend a lot of time to really pinpoint where this happened.
Step three
Now that you have isolated the real basis for your breakup you can now make a plan on how to recontact your ex.
Hopefully you have used at least a week in step two. If not, utilize the rest of that week in making a plan of re-contacting your ex. Whatever you do make sure you take your time on this step. It is also vital that you understand completely what went wrong and what is most important, the part you played in it.
You should have an upbeat attitude when you speak to your boyfriend/girlfriend, being happy and carefree. You really need to be lighthearted about this. This should be a short contact. See how it goes. If you are on the right path continue. If not, re-evaluate your identification of the problem. If step two looks good, you can try a new step three, but step two is usually the problem.
