subject: Spouse Had One Night Stand: Acceptable or not? [print this page] There are different reasons why spouse had one night stand which might be valid or still unaccepted. It always depends on your perception when it comes to short term relationship which includes the norms and your contentment. These two factors are also the basis in categorizing one night stand as either accepted or unaccepted action.
When talking about the norms, the thought that spouse had one night stand is unaccepted and it will always be unaccepted. Of course, as a married person, you are expected to have sex only with your partner and not with any other individual. On the other hand, many believe that having short term affair or just one night stand is still acceptable especially if your partner is not capable anymore of meeting your sexual desire. No matter how hard you control, you have sex drives on your system and it will arouse unexpectedly. In order to satisfy this, you must do what is expected and it will be a big problem on your part if you know your partner is not that sexually active anymore. So for you to meet your sexual desires, then you can look for someone who is willing to have one night stand with you. One night stand also helps you to avoid the possibility of having long term relationship with someone who is more sexually active, which can obviously help you to avoid ruining your relationship with your partner and you family as well.
Being sexually active is not your fault and having an affair is the only defense mechanismyou have. There is no exception in this issue. Either you are a female or male, you have sex drives and you are expected to have sexual desires. In the end, if you found out that your spouse had one night stand, then think of the reasons stated above and judge if his action is acceptable or not.
