subject: Sensual Breast Massage Techniques and Methods of Breast Massage [print this page] Both of you are probably missing a lot of the good feelings that touching different parts of your body can provide. The massage exercises we describe are called sensual because they encourage you to appreciate more than just sexual or genital feelings. There is no real difference between "sensual" and "sexual," of course, but we would like you to attune yourselves to feelings other than genital ones and mutually pleasurable activities other than sexual ones, such as intercourse or oral-genital sex. We will not elaborate on any particular massage techniques, but we have listed in the bibliography some massage books that couples in sex therapy have used with good results. What we want to outline for you are the general principles of a sensuous massage, with specific hints to help you experience as much satisfaction as possible. Feel free to expand on whatever you learn here.
Breasts are very important for women's emotional health and they deserve to be nurtured and respected to gain woman's trust and love. Sensual breast massage can lower her stress level drastically, intoxicate her, lower her blood pressure and can put her in mood faster than any other part of the body. Kamasutra has stated that playing and fondling of breast can be as exciting for a woman as caressing her clitoris and for better and satisfying sex male should pay sufficient attention to this part of woman's body.
Do not land up straight on to the breast of the woman, start the massage by relaxing other parts of her body. It is ideal to start the massage while making her lie down on her belly and massage her back, calf, ankles and kneading her heels. If one can relax most tired parts of her body she will feel comfortable and will allow herself to sink in the waves of sensation generated by the touches. Stay teasingly close to her genitals while massaging her back and remain gentle.
Once she is comfortable and relaxed turn her to face up and bare her upper body. Pour some warm oil on her breast starting from her nipples, her breasts and on her upper chest area, gently spread the oil evenly all over her upper body. Increase the pressure just a little bit and move your hands across her upper chest from one shoulder to another, you can also place your hands just above her breasts and move your finger in circular motion from center of her chest towards her shoulder and armpits. Pull your hands from her shoulder passing from her cleavage and moving below her breasts. Repeat this motion till you feel she is enjoying it. Do not give a hard rub always remember it is a sensual massage and not a breast rub down.
Cup her breasts and move your hands in circular anti-clockwise direction, from outside towards inside, the grip shall remain gentle. You can also hold her breasts from below and lift them up and move your hands over them with your fingers moving in anti-clockwise direction. Finally cup her breasts and rub her nipples with one finger. You can even pinch her nipples gently with two fingers. If you feel you may even suck them for more excitement. Mastering this technique of sensual breast massage will prepare both of you for a memorable lovemaking act.
Sensual Breast Massage Techniques and Methods of Breast Massage
