subject: Indecent Words-- Do You Like? [print this page] Someone may babble a lot willingly to kill time. In other words, when job is too tedious and dull, painstaking and tense, or when you want to earn the applause, you have to take the indecent words out of mouth to arouse people's interest.
But there are also some evil guys. They deliberately speak some indecent words in the presence of some young ladies. The first guy who bursts out the dirty words is the one who would like to draw the ladies' attention because he is lack of confidence and has to get approach to ladies in this way.
Some may speak dirty words without malice; some say it for fun, some may try to follow the trends
Actually, everybody had said dirty word, but many guys said frequently, may be every stance with dirty word. My opinion, the dirty word we can say, but it must be in right occasion and situation.
I guess the reason for what mentioned above is relative to the sense of first impressions. Because it is known that words are the reflection of our character and morality, it cannot be denied that those who always talk rudely or be with the dirty tongue are considered as the ones, who are lack of confidence, courtesy, and noble mentality. And therefore, when someone uses indecent words in the party or gathering, our sense of first impressions will make us to be away from guys like that, for few of us wants to have friends like that.
We should pay attention to the word "like". The word implies it is a normal state for these guys to babble a lot of indecent words at any time. We can't identify a person who occasionally burst out some dirty words at some special situations as the kind of "like". If a person is accustomed to speak out dirty words, don't expect he would be quite cultivated.
All in all, when we always take civilization and manners regard as obvious matter, we also focus on the character difference caused by diversity education level and living environment. All that can't be taken as a general standard to judge a guy even if his decent words, often an optimistic and dedicated heart hides under the his dissolute appearance, what shows better than those hypocrite sanctimony.
