subject: How To Improve The Situation After Quarrel In The Family [print this page] It is said that "Quarrel implies intimacy", therefore it is inevitable for couples or lovers to have quarrels. After experiencing the fierce quarrel, the both sides start to calm down, but the cold war between them is still continuing. Who will break the ice under such condition, and who should be the first one to extent the hand for detente?
Must it be done by the gentlemen? Because he should be as chivalrous as a knight that forgives and pleases the one he loves with his generous heart.
Or must it be done by the ladies? For she should be as considerate as the goddess that forgives and understands the one she loves with her feminine heart.
There is a saying that, be defeated is an art in a family or a marriage. As a matter of fact, I don't think there is a winner or a loser in love or the marriage. Both the gentlemen and the ladies are equal in the romantic relationship, and which means that both of us need to be considerate and generous.
Maybe because of the chromosome differences of males and females, they differ both physically and mentally which leads to the fact that men and women can never really understand each other gender's feelings. This has been proved by scientists.
Actually, I do think it is man's psychology affected on basis of their thoughts. We can't keep harmony with each other all the time. On contrary, we have to hitch our horses together with. Meanwhile, it is a common phenomenon for us to stand our own opinions for same issue. Once divergence occurred, we shouldn't treat each other with suspicion, as well as wait for the other part to conform to us and agree our actions. On the contrary, communication is the most significant thing. To discuss the issue calmly, it is a good thing to reach an agreement. It is also ok, if we failed in the agreement. In spite of everything, one hand alone can't clap. Nuva turned out man and woman. They created the harmonious world through mutual communication and understanding.
In summation, communication is the compulsory course for our human being, if you want to get the full marks, you should run through it in your life. My dear friends, lets move forward hand in hand and make our efforts to create a harmonious and happy society.
