subject: Tips On How A Guy Should Handle Heartaches [print this page] Past is past so to speakPast is past so to speak. But we tend to hold to our own past, particularly the break-up we just recently had for hopes of getting back to our old relationship. This is the wrong notion most of us had. We stick to the past even though we know deep inside that there is no hope of a second chance.
So if ever you and your girl did break-up, it is best to assume that there is no turning back and the relationship has ended with no more chances of getting back together. As hard as this sound, it is good to just walk away and move on. How? Try to consider these helpful ideas:
Do not put any expectations that she may change her mind and that there is still a slight feeling inside her that she still loves you. If she is decided to move on, do it too. Make a firm decision that you can also move-on on your own. Stop thinking of the possibilities and start fixing your life as s single guy.
This is just temporary when you think you are not yet over her. It would not be good to spend on places or hang with people such as her friends when you are still broken. There is a greater possibility that you and your ex will meet along the way. So unless you are ready, prefer to stay out from her as much as possible.
I know it is hard for guys to cry and get all that negative feelings inside. But it is best to practice getting all that out to relieve one's self. You can start by writing down what you feel towards the whole break-up. Writing what you feel can somehow ease the pain inside. In time too, when you are over her, you can read the things you wrote and believe me, you will have great time laughing at yourself.
Be able to release all your feelings. Shout and cry as long as you want. Do not ever store all those negativity inside of you. Try to talk with friends if you can. This way, you ar able to lighten your load inside and in time you will soon get over those negative feelings.
Unfortunately, we do not have control of where our relationship ends. We just have to take caution that the past may not anymore be repeated by improving ourselves towards our relationship with someone.
