subject: How To Approach Someone You Are Attracted To [print this page] When you find someone attractive, do not think and hesitate just approach him/her right away. Attraction is innate and you should not try to make lame excuses or even questioning if he or she is in a relationship or not. Approaching someone you are attracted to even if committed is already a big achievement. In addition, practice makes you a better person, right?
Surely there are people who are a "natural flirt". But flirting can be learned. Below are tips you can well use:
1. Looking through someone's eyes directly gives the message. Lock your eyes for five to six seconds to a person you like and do this at least three times. Do not look on any other things but the eyes. Giving a person a come-hither look can clearly give a message that you want him/her.
2. Wearing a red lipstick can attract more guys according to some studies. Women look good and beautiful with a red lipstick. A lip gloss can also add advantage by making your lips moist and kissable. Try also biting your lips while your guy notices how luscious and good your lips are.
3. This is effective when you are in the same small room together or having a conversation. You can throw a nice wink just to say that you are interested at spending a moment with him/her alone. But remember that you do not repeat a wink. Too much winking may seem so embarrassing.
4. Effective flirting requires closer spaces. The closer you get, the message becomes clearer and obvious. It is suggested that you get closer by standing at least 6 inches away from your target.
5. When you approach a him/her, make sure to notice the body language. The way one acts can tell if he or she is into you or not.
As said before, it does not really matter whether the person is committed or not because you will never know what happens if you have not even try. Probably, if a person already is with someone, they may be experiencing relationship problems that may require you to finally make up the mind to find someone else.
So the best thing to do is to set aside the relationship dilemma and just get your act on by assuming that the person has a boyfriend or girlfriend. This way, you will feel less angst when you finally found out the whole truth. But do not ever ask if the person really has a boyfriend or girlfriend. Just approach the person and try to find hints while you are conversing with him/her.
