subject: Becoming Positive Can Help Increase Your Chances In Finding The One [print this page] It is quite sad how you managed to be successful in almost everything but when it comes to finding the right one for you, you just cannot understand what you missed in the first place. Sounds familiar? Do not be surprised. Many individuals are just like this. They are so successful and great at what they are doing but when it comes to their love life, they got zero.
Most f the times, it is so easy to be just socializing and becoming friendly rather than emotionally spilling your feelings at someone you really like. And if this is the case, most of the times people just stammer and choke and how they really feel for each other. Yes, this is exactly often called "comfort zone".
Oftentimes, we are too afraid to walk outside our comfort zones, thinking in mind that everything we have build will be ruined if we risk it. There are fears and insecurities that refrain you from stepping out of the comfort zone and avoiding risking your seemed-to-be "happy life" by just admitting to someone how you feel.
This may be absurd but there are really cases such as this that is happening. These type of people try to plan their life and they always wanted their plan to have a clear outcome. Whereas when they try to find the one, they seem to fear that the outcome may have a bad impact. And this is hard to foretell.
These type of people really lack self-confidence and a belief that they are good at communicating with the one they really like or love. They do not seem to realize that refraining from talking about how you really feel will never get them anywhere.
Communicating and self confidence are factors that greatly contribute to finding the perfect one for you. If you try to believe that you can actually say how you feel and do it personally in front of that special someone, then you will do a great job. You will soon see and decipher that socializing and being just friendly is way too different than talking to someone you care a lot.
Communication is the key to stepping outside the comfort zone. You will be surprised at how communication works well with finding your love and being with him/her. Communication is also the key to a lasting relationship. When couples talk often with honesty and trust, then they can solve whatever problems they may encounter in the near future.
If you are one hell of a good person in terms of social skills but is poor in communicating and finding for the right one for you. I suggest move now or be single forever. Try to step out of your comfort zone and you will soon realize how happy you will become after accomplishing it. Good luck!
