subject: Should I Get My Ex Back? A Question About Reconciliation [print this page] People who have been in a relationship, regardless of it being heterogeneous or homogeneous, are familiar with how hard it is to break up with the one he/she loves. If it is very recent, the persons involved might be hurting towards each other. Despite these instances, some people still feel the urge to be together again and try their relationship once more. Although this is highly possible, the thing that these people often forget is that they are not sure if the process and the result itself is still worth it after all this time. How will a person know if he/she can finally say, "I will get my ex back?"
Primarily, a person should not count on reconciliation if he/she is not in good terms with the other person in the first place. If the reason of their breakup is the disunity of their ideas and principles in life, then reconciliation should not be done. If it does happen, then both persons will most likely end up doing the same argumentations over and over again. If he/she wants to stay true to his/her 'get my ex back' statement, then he/she must be willing to discuss things to his/her former significant other to straighten things out.
To go with one's "get my ex back" statement would also mean for him/her to get back the feelings for both once again. However, if at least one of the two persons doesn't feel that things will work out the way they are again, then that should be enough for both parties to not push through with the plan. Love is the most important thing that makes a relationship work. Without it, everything will be senseless.
Finally, a person will not be able to muster enough courage and strength by just doing make-believe with his/her "get my ex back" statement. If everyone around that person persuades him/her to try the relationship once more but he/she does not feel it, then he/she should not be influenced by what these other people say. A person should always follow what his/her heart says and not what other or most people say. In the end, it is him/her who will be directly affected by the consequences of his/her action or inaction, to say the least.
Before pulling that "I'll get my ex back" statement, a person should read these things first in order for him/her not to be sorry about everything that might happen from this crucial point. Picking someone to spend the rest of his/her life with is not something that a person should be very complacent of. In every step of the way, however, the willingness of that person to get everything back to where it was before should be his/her guide in order to be successful.
