subject: Discover How To Approach And Pickup Beautiful Women [print this page] A beautiful woman is just like any other person. She has feelings and behaviors that are predictable because they are similar to those of all the other people you have known in your life. Because of this, even if you have never had success picking up women before, it is not so hard to learn how to do it.
The good thing is that there are certain well-defined steps you can take in order to get to the point where you can walk into any venue and confidently approach and attract women. This article will cover a few of the initial steps you can take in order to create the proper mindset for picking up beautiful women. Process-focused vs. Outcome-focused.
In order to pick up beautiful women you can't be focused on picking up beautiful women. Yes, this probably sounds like a Zen master's advice, and, in fact, there is some truth to that. It is good to have a goal, but if we become too focused on the goal we often lose sight of the truly important part, doing what is necessary to achieve the goal. This is the difference between being focused on the outcome and being focused on the process.
Here's an example. If you are determined to pick up beautiful women, you have set yourself a goal. One of the steps necessary to achieve that goal is to go out to different venues and approach women. When you start going to these venues, you can best get closer to your goal by concentrating on approaching the women and nothing else. If you are worried about picking up women, you are getting ahead of yourself-approach first, and then pick up. After you learn how to approach then you can move on to the next step.
It's just a game. A corollary to the above rule about focusing on process instead of outcome is that you should enjoy your time. In the grand scheme of things, picking up women is not a life or death activity; it should be one that is viewed with an appropriate level of seriousness. You should be going out having fun, not killing yourself over how some woman wasn't interested in you. In addition, if women see you having fun they will be more attracted to you.
They went to that venue to have fun, too. They want to meet guys who are enjoying themselves. They don't want to meet some guy who's all wound up, chewing his nails and sweating profusely. No matter what, smile, laugh with your buddies, and keep an upbeat attitude.
Even if your approaches don't go so well, remember that it is just a game; it is all part of the process. By focusing on the process instead of the outcome, and having some fun doing so, you will increase your level of attraction tenfold. Women go out for the same reason men do: to have a good time and to meet interesting people. If you can keep a light attitude while approaching women, they will be more easily persuaded.
