subject: What Type Of Nightclub Guy Are You [print this page] Guys in bars and nightclubs are always a mystery to the girls. One minute guys can be all over you, and the next minute he will run to another girl or leave you without asking for your number. The trick to help avoid getting totally confused, lost and helpless in situations like these is to recognize the different types of guys in bars and nightclubs so that you know which ones to avoid and which ones to invest your time in. To help save you time and effort with guys, here are a few more types of some guys you will come across in bars and nightclubs.
1. The smooth guy.
He pays for your drinks, winks without it looking stupid or dodgy, and makes your heart flutter with how damn cool he is. This guy is suave, and he knows it. Before you decide to run away because you think he's secretly a sleaze, remember: if nothing else, this guy can give you a good night, and make you lookwell, cool. The best way to approach him is with a one-liner, or if he comes to you, be a little more mysterious and coy. With this approach, you make yourself feel like you're at his level of 'suave-ness' and also generate a little more interest from him. Whether or not he's genuine is a different story, but the best way to think about him is as a one-night flinganything else is a bonus.
2. The shy guy.
If there is ever a bigger challenge for the girls at bars and nightclubs, it's this: the good looking shy guy. He catches your attention from the moment you look at him, and his quietness only intrigues you more. Shy guys can be the most difficult but the most awesome person you meet in bars and nightclubs: once he gets out of his shell, he's normally a great, funny, caring guy. With the shy guy, it is often better to be a little more forward: ask him questions about himself, and ask for his number. Don't worry if you feel like you're talking too much; unless you talk at a hundred miles a minute, it probably makes him feel more comfortable. If nothing else, the shy guy will always be a great friend.
3. That guy that just won't give up.
The one guy that I find the most frustrating in bars and nightclubs is the one that just doesn't get it. You tell him you don't want to dance, he just hangs around you and your girlfriends. You tell him that you don't want to talk to him, he just stands beside you. This guy will most definitely be a downer on your night, and only two methods work: be straight up, or run away. Either tell him in the most blunt, bitchy way possible that you want him to leave you alone, or say you need to go to the Ladies room and then run out of the club when he's looking away. It may seem a little bit hard core, but trust me: the trouble you go to to get rid of him is a lot less trouble than if you let him hang around.
So the next time you see a guy or are approached by one, keep these types of guys in mind and you will save yourself a lot of stress, energy, and brain power. Your time can instead be spent on what God intended women to do: dance, flirt, and have a hell of a lot of fun.
