subject: The Myth of the "Best Way"—is there a "Best Way" to Get Your Ex Back? [print this page] As complicated as relationships are, there is a very simple way to look at this scenario. The relationship between the two of you could not continue "as is." One or both of you were unhappy. The only logical conclusion was that the relationship had to end. Now it's time for you to think back to the beginning of the relationship. Wasn't it an enjoyable relationship at first? Think back to why your partner liked you. What kind of man or woman did she think you were? What kind of memories did you enjoy together? Don't focus on recreating the past as if this were the "best way." The best way to get an ex back is to become the man (or woman) your ex first fell in love with. - Did your ex once love your company because you were so fun to be around? Did she like you because you seemed responsible and mature? - Did he used to like you because you were so open-minded and creative? Now think back to the worst times, when there was a great deal of fighting. - What were the arguments usually about? Why not start working on yourself so that you can become a better person? - Did your ex once criticize you for keeping up a serious flaw? - What can you do to show her that you have overcome it? It's not enough to simply say "I have changed!" as if that's the best way. The best way to get an ex back is to provide evidence of your positive changes. Show him/her that you are a success. Show your ex that you have made positive changes and are happy. If there was any love at all between you at one point, then your ex will begin to feel the attraction again. Perhaps he or she will even long to be with you againthe new and improved you. The best way, yes, the best way to get an ex back is to take the time to change your behavior. Become your ex's dream lover and wait him/her out. Sooner or later, it will hit your ex like a ton of bricks: "I'm still in love!"
The Myth of the "Best Way"is there a "Best Way" to Get Your Ex Back?
