subject: The One Inch Punch Technique To Master Dating [print this page] In terms of results, we all tend to have a pretty bad grasp on reality. Even experienced businesspeople and community leaders will overestimate what they can do in a given time. The reality is that life usually gets in the way somehow, someway. Worries and concerns pile up from out of nowhere, and your motivation quickly vanishes as obstacles grow and frustrations pile on.
Do you know the secret of the one-inch punch?
Its an offensive technique in martial arts that was made famous by Bruce Lee, designed to strike an object with full power from a short distance- one inch. Its effectiveness lies in a simple belief. In Bruce Lees own words: to simply strike the target is not enough you must punch two inches beyond the target!
It's about raising your standards, no matter how high you thought they were just before. Its not enough to simply rise to the challenge, the student must demolish, must overwhelm their current challenges so completely, that they will really feel like Bruce Lee beating the hell out of their lifelong frustrations.
Here is Bruce Lee, demonstrating the one-inch punch. This punch throws Bruces volunteer assistant several feet backwards and sprawls him into a chair placed behind him. Click on the following link to see the reality of this belief come to life: http://kajukenbo.info/kajukenbo/brucelee.html In essence, this entire program is designed to punch two inches beyond the students target.
Your goal is to push your limits in short, manageable assignments, especially when it comes to your areas of weakness- and then repeat them over and over again. It's just like the old saying: Amateurs practice until they get it right, professionals practice until they can't get it wrong.
For example: if you have a lot of approach anxiety that goes unaddressed, you may not make enough progress on building proper body language, escalation or building attraction. Attack this early on - by trying simpler, less threatening approaches, such as asking strangers for directions.
Keep this idea in the back of your mind - you have strengths and weaknesses. Write it down. Make a plan of action and hold yourself accountable for it.. If you are not making improvements in your areas of weakness, you will find this is most likely because you are not following through on the assigned plan of action/If this is the case, it means you need to break the steps into even smaller, simpler steps. Make them so easy that you cant not succeed at completing the task - like ordering a drink, or smiling at people. Often, these sorts of difficulties come up due your resistance towards the idea of success.
Take small steps. Master each one of them. Then go on to the next. Until you are a master at engaging the opposite sex on YOUR terms.
