subject: Win Her Back- And Keep Her With You This Time [print this page] Most guys that have a strong urge to reconcile with their ex-girlfriend tend to find themselves with a limited scope on what they should be doing. Without question, this is the natural reaction for a man to feel. The pain that you have to go through when you breakup with your girlfriend is something that you want to escape. It's okay to let yourself get rid of that feeling, however, you must keep in mind that if you want to win her back and keep her, your actions and your behaviors are going to have to be a little more unique and different from here on.
You are going to have to take a more long term approach to winning her back, so that you do not have to go through this again.
What should you do?
Realize that the key to winning back your girlfriend is to be able to both demonstrate that things will be different AND to create a strong attraction with her again. At this point is where it all starts to unravel for most guys that try and get back with their ex-girlfriend. They do not try and win her back through attraction, but through more manipulative ways.
Guess what?
They usually fail to get her back. You cannot go through a breakup with your girlfriend and expect her to saunter back to you if there are no obvious changes. After all, there must have been a reason why the breakup happened in the first place. This is the reason why you have to make certain that you are willing to show by example that you indeed have made significant changes to your life.
And you also have to do a little of the romancing to win her back.
She has to feel that little spark that makes her heart flutter and her mouth gab to her friends about you. she probably felt this way when you first got with her, and she NEEDS to feel this way one more time.
You have to be the one that makes her feel this way again. This means that you have to put an effort on appearing more appealing in the eyes of your ex-girlfriend. You can do this by not allowing the breakup to break YOU.
That's the last thing that you want to happen.
When you feel broken down about the relationship breaking up, and you let your whole world come crashing down, you are not going to make your ex-girlfriend feel anything but sorry for you.
Here's the thing:
It has to be a long term plan that you use to attract her back. If not, you can easily find yourself winning her back for the short term, however, you really want to be able to win her back for the long term.
