subject: Get Through Self Struggles And Crossroads: A Self Improvement Guide [print this page] Self improvement is like a booster shot to inject some juice into a lackluster life.
A lot of people don't seem to be contented with what they have that they end up wishing they could put themselves on another person's shoes. While others focus on a certain physical attribute, some are enamored with less tangible traits. Whatever platonic infatuation you take on, projecting that you are someone else isn't the answer, self improvement is.
This article explores on ways on how you can improve yourself to stop chasing that person that have you flat on your face. Read on:
1.Never compare yourself with others; you'll just wind up losing the game. At one point in each and every person's life, self comparison has been an issue. It may still be a major concern to some up until now, but one thing that must be remembered is that, you can never get on with your life unless you stop comparing yours with someone else's. You may seem to envy a particular person who always seems to have a lot going on and a life so complete while you wish yours is as full. But in order for you to improve not just your life but the way you think and act will rely on how you develop your entire being. Stop comparing yourself and move towards self improvement.
2.Don't trap yourself in that envelop; self acceptance is the key. Insecurities will eat you literally and figuratively. You will always encounter people who are better than you, more beautiful, more attractive, and more intelligent. But that doesn't mean you will shut in yourself to one place and put self explorations, discovery and improvement to a halt. You may always be the second best or people may see you as a mediocre performer, but those people won't always be number one for the rest of their lives. If you can prove to them that you too can be exceptional, you sure will gain their respect. Accept yourself for who you are and everything beautiful will follow.
3.Be the best that you can be at all times. The step towards improving yourself is to always try to be the best person that you can ever be. If you've been faint hearted in the past, try to be courageous and brave enough to face your fears today. If you always end up the last person in line, try your best to be as close to the first spot. And if you despise how you look, start embracing your individuality and do yourself a favor - love your own.
As a final point, self improvement shouldn't be a momentary solution, it must be a lifestyle.
