subject: My Wife Isn't Interested in Sex Anymore - 3 Tips for Inspiring Intimacy [print this page] Marriages are among the most complicated of all human relationships. Just by the very fact that husband and wife share so many personal and intimate things - including a home, cars, possessions, finances, (sometimes) kids, and even a common bed - makes marriage an extremely intimate, complex thing.
There are a number of key dimensions of any marriage that need to be working properly for it to be considered a happy one. These include effective communication, a general agreement on how to live life day to day, a common vision of the future, and healthy sexual relations.
In fact, when the sexual side of a relationship loses its steam, other aspects of the marriage can start to go by the wayside as well. If you find that your wife has lost interest your sex life together, this can be a very frustrating experience. It is very important that you face this problem head-on and in short order so that you can heal not only your sex life, but the entire relationship.
If you are saying to yourself, "My wife isn't interested in sex anymore," here are 3 tips for inspiring intimacy.
1. Examine your own actions:
Start by taking a long, hard look at yourself. Often, when a woman loses interest in the sexual side of her relationship with her husband, the husband's own actions can be a partial cause. Specifically, turn-offs for women include the man: failing to help out around the house, not giving his wife enough "me time" to recharge her batteries, not spending enough time in her presence, failing to show appreciation for all that she does, and/or not taking care of himself physically.
2. Bring the subject out into the open:
You need to find a kind, gentle way to bring the subject up to your wife. Remember, she is also very aware of the lack of activity in your sex life together. By starting a dialogue with her, you can diffuse the situation and set yourselves on the path to healing. Remember to use non-accusatory language: this situation is nobody's fault, so do not blame your wife when you speak to her.
3. Arrange to have some time away together:
Once you can get your wife to agree that you need to work on your sex life together, one surefire aphrodisiac is just the act of getting away together. Spend a weekend at a local motel or hotel, or do something more exotic. It doesn't matter. Just get away from responsibilities like your kids, your jobs, and chores around the house.
Try these 3 tips for inspiring more intimacy between you and your wife.
My Wife Isn't Interested in Sex Anymore - 3 Tips for Inspiring Intimacy
