subject: Nip His Cheating In The Bud With These Stress Reducers [print this page] With reduced stress you'll be assured to go a long way to be assured that your husband won't cheat on you again. It is likely that you never thought of being able to feel the bliss upon discovery that your husband is cheating on you.
You may have felt as if you were the last person to know about it. But that is just a speckle in the grand scheme of things. The first thing that you have to attend to at this very moment is to make sure that the cheating will never happen again.
1)Fun. Oh yes, having fun reduces stress. For the best results, find ways to have fun that don't require a lot of money, that are easy and convenient, and that are fun for both of you and the family. Make sure that some of the fun you have is alone as a couple together and not all as a family. Fun and laughter are huge stress relievers and you need to both have fun together as much as possible in order to strengthen the bond you have. Do things you both enjoy but also make the occasional sacrifice to enjoy things that your partner enjoys for the sake of your marriage. Remember that your partner will get to return the favor in kind some day too. Is it really too much to ask to attend the opera once a year if your wife is willing to attend a football game (when the wind chill is bitterly below zero) with you in return?
2)Tease. Teasing, flirting, these are wonderful instruments to relieve oneself of stress and welding together relationships. Create a game out of it and discover just how much fun and creative you can achieve in mustering your words, facial expressions and bodily movements. Set aside substantial time to follow through the hints, promises, and suggestions but don't fail to cease the opportunity to have great time right at the beginning. Just put in mind that sex is not always a serious business. Have fun with it. Laugh and enjoy the great time as you work yourselves toward the big moment and even after that moment had come and gone as they usually do.
3)Be a partner to each other in getting things done. If one of you think and feels that he or she is being dump with all the household chores, the feeling of over burdened, over-worked and un-appreciated will set in. When you make each other a partner in getting the chores completed so that you can play together afterwards, it would result to a lighter feeling and will result to the resolution of the issue. With more time to play no one will feel overburdened of the work that needs to be completed. Furthermore, working with each other will provide you a venue to talk, laugh, and play together in another setting. The can also give you a hint just how much you can accomplish (and quickly you both can finish the job) when you are working as partners.
