subject: Saving A Marriage From Destruction Is Not That Hard [print this page] Many people want to become marriedMany people want to become married. It is an institution that should not be entered into lightly. Getting married is a huge responsibility. Some marriages end up in failure. The failure rate of marriages in the United States in roughly a staggering fifty percent. That means that one in two marriages is likely to fail. Read on if you are interested in saving a marriage from failure.
When you and your future spouse met each other, the feelings just flew. You both knew that there was something magical when you both looked into each other's eyes for the first time and said hello. At this point, there was nothing else in the world that was more important that you two just being together. And no words needed to be said. This was it. Then, you started dating.
You got engaged, and you are so happy. Your friends are happy for you and you have the wedding all planned out. It is going to be a big ceremony with a wonderful reception so that all can witness the love that you have for each other. The big day came, and went.
After a while, the marriage goes poorly, and it seems that the spark is gone. There is not much interest between the two of you, and there is constant arguing. If kids are in the picture the end result is usually divorce. But, you have decided to save your marriage, so now you don't know what to do.
You need to put everything in perspective. It is good to place emphasis on the burdens of life, but, not all of them at one time at the expense of your spouse. It is time to get each other interested in each other again. One way to start all of this off is to find out what is was that the both of you used to do for fun while you were dating. Start spending more time together.
Make a certain time every day to do something together. Whether that be a walk, or playing a game. It is very important to do things together. Being together for the sake of being and enjoying one another and your time together is crucial.
Romance and love in a marriage is what marriage is all about. It is the sharing of love for one another. If you do not share you love for each other, your marriage may end up in failure. Physical love like making love to each other is a vital part of marriage. Kisses and hugs along the way don't hurt either.
Listening to each other in patient conversation is a critical part of marriage. You did this intently when you were dating, so there should be no reason why you can't do it again. It is very important that you do this. In saving a marriage from divorce, just remember what you did in the early stages of your dating life.
