subject: What Is The Smartest Way To Get Your Ex Back Again? [print this page] Doing a quick search on the internet about getting back with your ex will bring you to page after page of ideas, quotes, techniques, and strategies. How on earth can you find the smartest, quickest way? Well the first thing to know is that you will need to start by looking very closely at yourself, at the very time that all you want to think about is your ex! It's the first step, and probably the hardest.
You see, what you will find when you stop focusing of them, and start focusing on you is the difficult parts of your relationship that you were responsible for, and make no doubt about it, it's never only one persons fault! The smartest way to get your ex back again is to take this step very seriously. Just sit down, and think about it, and try not to feel defensive or angry. If you do feel these emotions, try to carry on anyway, because anytime something makes you feel angry or defensive, that means there's something there for you to learn.
After you have taken some time to self examine, you will be surprised at what you have discovered, and it will be time to begin some limited contact with your ex. Limited, because moving too fast or worse yet "chasing" an ex is one of the main reasons reconciliations fail! Take your time, make one phone call, not twenty, and don't stay on the phone for hours. You're practicing a bit of psychology here. Your ex will wonder why you aren't acting like they expect you to, and that ignites a spark, and a spark leads to them thinking about you again. We humans are curious and even a little excited when someone becomes mysterious. The smartest way to get your ex back again is to work with human nature, not against it!
These early stages of getting back together can be frustrating or fun depending on how you want to look at it. Try to make it fun by letting the sexual tension build, get to know each other again and really begin to remember what brought you together in the first place. Really begin to see your love with new eyes, and discover things about yourself and them that you may have missed the first time around. It's a new and better direction for your relationship, so enjoy the journey! This will prove to be the smartest way to get your ex back again.
