subject: Getting Over Someone And Moving On [print this page] So okay, we are at present nursing a broken heart and it seems that the whole world has fallen apart. Everything seems bleak, we have no desire to live and we feel as if this is the worst time in our lives.
But getting over someone has been done before by people who were in the same boat as us. If they can do it, we can, too. How to Get Over Someone is something that we never learned in school but it is something that we must do if we want to enjoy life again.
THE PAIN OF SEPARATION
When it's time to let someone go, we should learn how to make a dignified exit. Throwing tantrums and begging may work for awhile - or they may not - but there will come a time when we still start questioning whether the person stayed with us because we begged for it or because they really wanted to still be with us.
This hounding thought alone is enough to drive us up the wall!
In the end, learning How to Get Over Someone is better than holding on to something that may not already be there - it's all just in our minds now. Moving on will open up new doors for us - better doors even; and pretty soon, we might feel foolish for ever thinking that the pain of the last separation meant the end of the world.
GETTING OVER SOMEONE
How to Get Over Someone is something that we may need to learn as we go along. There are tips and suggestions on How to Get Over Someone but in the end, it is up to us to decide how we will go about it because we are the ones directly involved in the break-up.
One thing that we can do though when learning How to Get Over Someone is to take out all reminders of the person. Pictures, clothes, gifts, emails, text messages, letters and every little thing that will bring trigger memories should be put away or deleted.
Avoiding places that we usually went to with the person involved will be helpful, too. This will decrease the risk of running into the person when we are still on the recovery stage of the break-up.
Talking about it to someone we trust until our throats hurt and we get sick of hearing our voice will likewise help. Spilling out our pain to someone we trust will not only help us get a better perspective on things; it will also help us realize a few home truths that we may have failed to recognize while still in the relationship.
Finally, believing that there is always a silver lining in every rain cloud; that there is something better waiting for us and that moving on with head held high is the best thing we can do for ourselves.
When all is said and done, learning How to Get Over Someone will not seem as hard as we first thought it would be. Once we have passed the hurdle of getting over someone that we have lost, we will feel better about ourselves and we will be more open to the infinite possibilities waiting for us.
