subject: Getting What You Want Using The Law Of Attraction [print this page] Deliberate attraction meant to purposely get what you want in your life. Deliberate attraction is very important. It is something that we all should be doing because if we are not consciously aware of what we are bringing into our lives, well always be wondering why we get the things we do.
Now there is a 3 step formula to the law of attraction:
Step 1: Identify what you desire
Step 2: Give what you desire attention
Step 3: Allow It
All of these steps sound very easy but if you are like me, you are stuck at step one, and it is okay because most of us dont know what we really want, but its easy for us to figure out what we do want. Even though we should not allocate a lot of time to focus on what we do not want, it will help us to figure out what we do want. Here is what I mean:
My family and I wanted to relocate because we no longer wanted to live in the city that we were living in, but we didnt know where we wanted to move. We created a list of all the reason why we didnt want to live in that city and here is a short version of that list:
1. Too Flat, no mountains or hills
2. People arent friendly
3. Cant visually tell when the season change
4. Real-estate is too expensive
5. Small lots
6. Far from shopping malls & plazas
7. Lots of lizards and frogs
8. Not that much new developments or master planned community
9. Cost overall cost of living is too high
Okay, now we have a list of things we dislike that we live in, we can now determine what we do want in the city that we will move to and all we have to do is ask ourselves what do we want?
After asking ourselves that question here is what our list now looks like
Our Ideal Home Community
Things We Dont Want/Dislike
Its Too Flat
People Arent Friendly
Either Too Hot or Too Wet
Cant Visually When The Seasons Change
Real-Estate Is Too Expensive
Far From Shopping Plaza
Cost Of Living Is Too High
Things We DO Want
Hills, Mountains, Lakes & Rivers
Friendly People & Neighbors
Variety of Weather
Would Like To See The Season Change
Better Real-Estate Prices
Live Closer T Shops & Plaza
Better Cost Of Living Ratio
This list can always be refined as you find things that you do not like about your current situation, take note, you then can ask yourself what do I want Now this can be used in any situation. Here is another example:
I own coaching business & training business and when I first started my business, I was running into all kinds of issues with my clients. One day I sat down and made a list of the things that I didnt like about the clients that I was attracting, here is what the short version on of that list look like:
1. Complain About Pricing
2. Dont Pay On Time
3. They turn in required paper work late
4. Try to tell me how to do my job
5. Dont Refer Business
6. Show-up late to appointments
7. Keep Changing Their Minds
8. Dont Return Calls
So once again, I clearly know what I dont want and by looking at my list I can figure what it is that I do want.
My Ideal Client
Things I Dont Want/Dislike
Complain About Pricing
Dont Pay On Time
They turn in required paper work late
Try to tell me how to do my job
Dont Refer Business
Only Have A Hand full Of Clients
Keep Changing Their Minds
Dont Return Calls
Things We DO Want
Happily Pay Me For My Services
Pay On Time
Turn in paperwork on time
Trust My Skills & Judgment
Always Refer Business
A Constant Flow
They Know What They Want
Always Return My Calls
Needless to say that shortly after creating this list and doing the steps that I will show later in this program, I have had such an influx of great clients that I have had to create a limit to how many clients for how many clients that I take-in.
Through a brief observation of contrast I was able to gain clarity. And whether we know it or not we all use this method. We use this method when we are trying to figure out what we want to eat, what movie were going to watch, what we are going to wear and whenever we are undecided about a thing that we want to do, be or have. Once we take out what we dont want, getting what we want becomes easier.
