subject: Demonstrate That You Are Of High Status [print this page] Have you recognized that women are naturally more attracted to men of high status? If so, you might assume that the only hope for you to attract awesome women into your life is to be vibrant or famous or both. Is this true?
Of course not! You can show to a woman that you are of high value as well...and you don't need to have lots of money or a Hollywood agent...
What is High Status anyway? Does high status have to mean that you're profitable or famous? Imagine this: if the most famous person in the United States were to travel to some little known island in the Pacific where they had no television or radio... how popular would that person be? What good would their American money be?
The truth is, being of high status is an impression. It's an illusion which is reinforced by the opinions of the people within your instant surroundings. For example, you might be of a very high social status when you are at a family reunion in comparison to being in a room that full of strangers.
So if you want to demonstrate to someone that you are of high status, there are two things that you can do...
First: Get the "Home Court Advantage"
In sports, having the home-court benefit means that you possibly have a larger number of supporting fans and are in acquainted surroundings. You can do the same thing in your social life by picking a handful of places and turning into a "regular" at those places.
Keep this in mind, the next time that you go someplace you've never been to before. How much special would your experience be if you had been likely to that same place for the past three years? Would it be simpler for you to establish to women who were around you that you are a person of high status?
Second: Build Relationships in Your "Home Court"
When you have established where you are about to have your "home-court advantage," start building relationships with people who are there frequently. The best place to start is with the staff, since they are guaranteed to be there frequently and are more likely to be friendly.
Within exactly a few short weeks, it will be very easy for you to prove to any woman that you meet in that place that you are a man of high status.