subject: What to Do When Your Husband Had Affair with Colleague [print this page] Do you think your husband had affair with colleague? If he comes home late at night reeking of a woman's perfume and has a lipstick mark on his shirt, then your hunch is probably right. It's not impossible that your husband could be attracted to a colleague. He spends the entire day in the office, away from you, and in the presence of other women. If your relationship has not been smooth-sailing lately, that could be another factor that could push him to have an affair.
Dealing with this situation is definitely not easy. If you suspect that your husband had affair with colleague, you can't just ask him outright because he will just vehemently deny it. You should do your own investigation yourself. There are many telltale signs that could indicate if your husband is hiding something from you. All you need to do is to be familiar with these signs and observe your husband closely. If he shows any of these red flags, write it down for reference. Notice the tiniest details of his actions since there could be some subtle changes there. Do a bit of snooping around to gather enough evidence. Then, when you've built a strong case, that's when you drop the bomb on him.
And what should you do afterward? It all depends on you. Some choose to end the relationship and just leave. Some, who still have hope that their relationship can be fixed, choose to stay and try work things out. If you think that your husband can change, then by all means give him a second chance. But if you think that it is a hopeless case, then do yourself a favor and just leave. In the end, there are really no right ways to deal with this kind of situation. It is up to your judgment on what would be the best course to take if your husband had affair with colleague.
