subject: Measuring Relationships in Pairs [print this page] if you're in touch with your partner, it's good if you're not very quick to judge relationships with your partner. Although the relationship you and your spouse often quarrel or discord, it does not mean your relationship is worse compared with other couples.
Comparison exercises with another couple ways to help the relationship. For those of you who are married, these exercises help couples to see the strengths and weaknesses of the marriage. With tears from the way other couples how their relationship, then you can strengthen the bonds of relationship with your partner.
Try to write the four couples who you know.
You and your spouse each try to write four different couples. Of course you write a couple who you know well, including how they build relationships. Try to write two couples from marriage relationships that you think well and write two more couples than you think relations are bad marriages.
Discuss with your partner.
If you have chosen a partner, to further discuss these married couples relationship with your spouse. Express why married couples are successful or not in conjunction. Try to discuss it in great detail might be together with you spouse.
Comparing with your relationship
after you discuss with your partner, the next thing is that you discuss with your partner how your relationship-related problems that your criticism of other couples. Try to position your self and your partner are in a natural situation for your friend. Then find the way there and your partner how you cope with problems like those of other married couples. Here you can choose what stance should be avoided when experiencing difficult situations such as conflict that occurs in other pairs.
Recognize your strengths and your spouse
the last thing you can try is to talk and discuss with your partner about how your skills together with your spouse in the face of adversity. Try to recall whether you and your spouse have experienced hard times and can strengthen your relationship? What ways have you traveled in overcoming these problems and whether you and your partner are satisfied with the success has been achieved? With knowing your abilities and your partner in facing the problem then you will be proud of the relationships that you build with your partner during this. And this will be a force to be used to deal with various problems for the future.
