subject: The Three Magic Words To Say To Ease And Repair Your Broken Marriage After Cheating [print this page] Cheating has done a lot in a married couple's life. Cheating can devastate a marriage. Although it's not the worst that could happen, it does affect a lot of couples. When you are caught in the web of cheating, it seems that there is nothing that can be said to make you feel better or lessen the pain.
The truth is that there are a few things that can be said to help sooth some of the wounds that cheating leaves behind. These are some of the things that need to be heard and may make a difference in your marriage after cheating has thrown it for a serious loop.
1.Say I'm sorry. These two magic words are perhaps the most soothing and healing words when they are said and felt straight from the heart. Telling the one you love on how sorry you are sincerely in hurting him or her when you've cheated (it doesn't matter if you're the one who actually cheated or not) will be your passport to heal your broken marriage back.
2)I love you. One of the biggest fears after cheating has ripped both your hearts to shreds is that the love you once shared is gone. Reassurance is powerful in good times. It's crucial at a time like this. You must reassure your partner in words and deeds that you do still love him or her. There is little hope for a future together if you can't get that particular point across.
3.Saying please and thank you. It is believed that these two magic words have the power to open doors, bring smiles as well as opening hearts. Say "please" when you ask for a second chance and if it is not offered to you immediately, then it's time to say "thank you" for the wonderful times you spend together and the fond memories you have together as a couple.
If you think you need to have space, walk away for a while. No need to worry about this. This is the perfect time for you to turn those statements into words. Walking away doesn't mean you are leaving your marriage behind. You're just getting some fresh air in preparation for Plan B.
The good news is that using the healing words mentioned above has softened a heart in your favor and is continuing to open doors you may not have even realized were closed. Give your words time to work by offering your silence until they do.
