subject: Will You Be Able to Win Her Back - Answer These Questions [print this page] Trying to wrap your head around the possibility of being able to win back your girlfriend? Welcome to the club. Seriously, lots of men get the short end of the relationship stick and end up feeling just like you do right now. And I won't kid you, many of them end up with nothing more than a broken heart. However, not all guys just end up getting the shaft in the relationship. Some are able to win back their girlfriend and they get to have the thrill of being back with the women that they are in love with.
Before you go about trying to win back your girlfriend, you need to be able to think things through. That way, you can put together a plan of action instead of just some haphazard, random attempts here and there to woo her back to you.
Here are 3 questions that you NEED to answer to find out if you will win her back or not:
1. Are you committed enough to deal with the ups and the downs that are inevitable?
There is no question that you are going to have to deal with a lot of "tests" that are going to come from your ex girlfriend. And you are going to have days where it seems like she is NEVER going to want to reconcile. Doubts are going to creep in and some guys succumb to the anxiousness of the situation. This is why you need to be committed enough to getting her back, that you are able to deal with all of this. It's not always as bad as it might seem, though.
2. Are you able to detach yourself from the desire to win her back enough to have FUN when you are around her?
There is such a thing as wanting to get her back a little too much and being too serious when you end up around her. When that happens, you are going to do very little to make her want to get back with you. If it becomes a drag for her to be around you, then she is not going to want to get back into a relationship. You need to be able to detach yourself from the desire so that you can enjoy yourself and have fun.
3. Can you read and apply simple instructions?
This might sound like a silly question, but as long as you can read and apply simple instructions, then you should be able to win back your girlfriend. There are certain things that you can do, a way to put together a system that will make her want you back in no time at all. The caveat to this is, you have to be able to follow the system and not allow your emotions to cloud your actions.
