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subject: How To Get Her To Love Me Again - Is It Even Possible? [print this page]


If you are looking for ways on how to get her to love me again, the most important thing that you need to keep in mind is that you cannot make a person feel a specific way, no matter how hard you might try.

If she claims that she is no longer in love with you sometimes you just need to accept the fact that it is over, but even if you accept the fact, that does not mean that you can't try to figure out how to get her to love you again.

One of the most important things that you need to do when trying to her to love you again is to give her the space that she is requesting. By giving her the space that she is needing you are silently giving her the message that you love her enough to respect her wishes, rather than trying to wiggle your way back into her life. Giving her any space she needs will allow her to sit back and think about what is going on and what she wants from life.

Another thing that you will need to try doing is to not contact her at all, this is part of giving her the space she needs, but it also goes further. By not contacting her that means you, do not send her any emails, not even forwards, you should also avoid sending her text messages and other types of phone calls. By not contacting her, you will not be tempted to force her to talk to you about what is going on. If you are trying to force her to talk before she is ready, you can actually make the situation worse, and push, her away rather then get her to start loving you again.

Instead, what you will want to do is give her the chance to come to you, waiting until she approaches you about talking means that she has had enough time to think and your actions are not causing her to do something rash.

What you need to remember is that when she comes and talks to you if she wants to end it officially there is not much you can do to change her mind. When she approaches you about talking about what has happened simply let her know how you feel and about what you want to see happen in the future.

by: Sean Wilder




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