subject: How Would You Know That Your Wife Is Not Going To Cheat Again? [print this page] Most husbands would probably not suspect their wives are cheating because in our society, usually men are frequently left by their wives because of infidelities. Nowadays, wives also commit the same mistake for multiple reasons like they become attracted to another man or she is looking for something that you are not able to provide, etc.
One thing is absolutely true about love. There just aren't any guarantees when it comes to love, marriage, and fidelity. In other words, there is no foolproof way to tell if she's telling the truth. On the flip side, there's no foolproof way to tell she isn't either.
Where does this leave the state of your relationship? Well, it leaves it firmly in your lap and that of the wife that cheated on you. I know that doesn't seem like a lot of help but there are some things you can do that will help ensure that your wife doesn't cheat again. Instead of putting trust in her word at a time when you trust her least put a little faith in yourself that you can do what is necessary to keep her heart, mind, body, and soul firmly turned in your direction this time around.
Though she had an affair in the past, you can still hold her down night after night. Here are a couple of tricks you need to remember when trying to make your relationship work despite her past affair.
1)Treat her like a queen. And not just at home but everywhere. Being appreciative of your wife is not so big of a responsibility. Anyway, she's your wife; she sometimes can be your drinking buddy and most of all, your best friend. If there's one person you need to value the most, it should be her. Unrequited love of women always ends up in an affair. One example is telling and showing her how you love the little things that she has done for you. If you don't know how to do it, you really need to get to work.
2)Preventing trouble before it starts. In a relationship, it is normal to argue and to have all sorts of problems. And most of them can be solved if you are going to give much effort to it. If you ignore any trouble arising on the horizon, the disaster is much likely to strike. Pay enough attention early on; you will be able to fix what wrong long before it gets to the point where all the problems have arise. Most importantly, an affair-proof marriage can be enjoyed if two people are attentive, very engaged in a relationship, committed and take pleasure from it.
