subject: The Road To Successful Relationship Requires Both Participants [print this page] A very common mistake that beautiful, smart, independent women make in relationships is to sit back and let it happen. Relationships dont happen they are made.
Successful, attractive woman who completely have herself together may feel entitled to sit back and believe, hes lucky to have me he better work hard to keep me. Her man may work very hard in the beginning to please his woman, but after a while, if that effort is not reciprocated, his efforts will surely start to dwindle. Eventually he will resent all the work he puts into the relationship and never getting anything in return.
No one person can make a relationship successful. Great relationships require work from both persons if it is to grow healthy and strong for the long-term. The woman mentioned above may be a great life partner but she will never realize her potential if she continues to believe that she doesnt need to participate in her relationship.
Another trait that robs good women of their life partner potential is: pessimism. Pessimism is such an unattractive trait. It gives life to negativity, which in itself is a turn-off.
The best relationship will not survive constant negative comments and actions. Smart, beautiful, intelligent women have had their share of losers. Those experiences tend to leave negative scars that are slow to heal. If the scars run deep enough, they may never completely heal, causing what would be a great woman to be a bitter, angry person. Negative pessimism of men, and maybe of life in general, will never allow you to be in a healthy, happy relationship because you will no longer be able to see good through your eyes. If you cant see the good in your situations, you wont be able to make positive contributions.
Men want easy relationships. They want relationships that dont require too much effort to maintain. They certainly dont want hard to please women that require constant attention and nurturing. A task is always easier for two people to complete than one person alone. Keep this in mind when it comes to your relationship. If you work together at maintaining the relationship, it will be much easier to develop, as it grows stronger. If only one person is working at the relationship, it stops becoming a life pleasure and becomes life drudgery.
Take off your negative face and let your positive side shine through what could be the most important union of your life. Be willing to equally contribute to the success of your relationship. Relationships are significant connections between two persons. No one person can make a relationship a success or a failure.
