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Take a good look at yourself: When you first fall in love with your partner, what type of a person were you? In the first place, your partner was attracted to you because he/she felt good about you, and you were fulfilling his/her emotional needs. Sure enough when a partner strays, others will tell you people change'. However, you should take a moment and think "Have I changed?" Be that person whom your partner was once deeply in love with. Your partner strays because his/her needs are not fulfilled. Think of what you can do to save the relationship. Correct bad habits and mistakes, if any. Remember, you have to change in order for the external world to change. Are you meeting your spouses emotional needs? If not they will not stay with you. Find out what their emotional needs are and do everything you can to try to meet them.
Are you communicating well? When communication stops so will your relationship. You cannot heal a failing relationship without good communication.
Do not stick to your partner like glue: Practice detachment. Never show your desperation and craving no matter how bad you want him/her back. This will only make your situation worse. Make sure you don't make it seem like you want him/her back. Be a carefree and independent person. As mentioned earlier, you must be able to give her true and unconditional love no matter what happens. At the same time, cultivate the hobbies and attitude as such that you are fully responsible for your own's happiness. You really do not need to depend on another person to experience happiness and peace. If you learn to cultivate this pattern, you will realize that your lover will be the one who is scared of losing you.
Do not stop them from seeing other people: If you start to complain, cry, and whine, you will instantly drive him/her away to that third party! Human nature is as such that the more you stop them from having something, the more they want it. On the other hand, respect his/her choices and freedom. Do not let jealousy set in. Let them do whatever they please and let them know that you will always be there. Soon they will realize that you are a better person than your rivals as you respect them more than anyone else does.
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