subject: Getting Your Ex Back - Find Out Why Your Ex Dumped You, and Then Decide What to Do About it! [print this page] Even though you are feeling really devastated and stressed out at the moment, there is nothing you can do until you find out why your ex dumped you. Sitting at home moping about what has happened is not going to help at all, so get off your butt, and make an effort to solve this problem you have.
Yes, you are feeling really upset now, and really don't want to make contact with your ex right now, but you don't have to. You can find out all you need to know without contacting your ex at all. You had mutual friends presumably, so this is where you start.
Your friends were probably the first to know about the break up, so find out from them. Your ex has no doubt been talking to them about the failed relationship, so this is obviously where you will find all the answers to any questions you have. Your relationship failed because your ex dumped you, so find out why.
The only thing you have to do is, realize that you could hear things that you don't really want to hear, so you need to be ion control of your emotions and not break down. Just ask your friends straight out whether your ex has been talking to them about you and the break up, and then listen very carefully.
Try as hard as you can to be nonchalant about everything, even though it might be tearing you apart inside. If you hear from them that your ex dumped you because he/she is interested in someone else, then, even if you are dying inside, don't break down - this will be a feather in your ex's cap! Just accept that your ex has found someone else, and resolve to carry on with your own life.
However, if they say that your ex dumped you because of something that you do or say that is really irritating to your ex, then, there is hope. Depending on what it is, it can possibly be fixed, and you could get back together again. It means that you need to work hard at changing yourself, and then making contact with your ex to talk about possibly getting back together again.
Getting Your Ex Back - Find Out Why Your Ex Dumped You, and Then Decide What to Do About it!
