subject: Disappear Out of the Picture Completely - Make Your Ex Miss You Like Crazy! [print this page] It's logical isn't it, that when you can't have something that you really want, you become totally obsessed with getting it, until you succeed? Well, the same applies to your situation. If you want to be in the great position of being able to make your ex miss you, then remove yourself from your ex's life completely.
Up until now, you have always been there for your ex. During your relationship, not a day went by that you didn't do things together. If one of you were invited out, the natural thing would be for the other one to be there as well. If one of you were sick, the other one was there to offer support. Then of course, there was the fact that you did all those really nice things for your ex, and had all those funny little quirks that your ex loved so much.
For your ex, these things no longer exist now that the relationship is over. At the moment it doesn't bother your ex, because he/she is still really fed-up with you after the break up, but given time, these feelings will change dramatically. This will only work though, if you are not around at all, so don't make any contact with your ex whatsoever from now on, and in time you will make your ex miss you.
You might also find that now, while your ex is still angry with you, he/she is saying some nasty things about you to your friends. Just brush these remarks aside, and know that this will all change soon. Show your friends that what your ex is saying about you doesn't bother you at all, even if it does - hang on to your dignity.
You will know when your ex's ideas about you are changing when you start hearing very different things from your friends. These little snippets of gossip will become a lot more positive from now on - your ex is starting to have other thought about you.
Now, because you have been so indifferent to the break up, your ex, and his/her remarks to your friends about you, you are getting there - you will make your ex miss you. You have the upper hand now - when your ex makes contact with you, you'll be in a position to call the shots!
Disappear Out of the Picture Completely - Make Your Ex Miss You Like Crazy!
