subject: It Isn't Over Yet! With the Right Attitude to the Break Up, You Can Still Get Your Ex Back! [print this page] This is easier said than done, I know, but if you want to get your ex back, then you have to be prepared to put in a bit of effort to achieve this. Although you feel as if your whole world is falling down at your feet, you need to be really strong and change your attitude. This is the one way that you can turn things around and possibly get back together with your ex again.
Your ex is expecting you to sit at home wallowing in self-pity - this is what usually happens to people after their relationship has failed. However, you need to show your ex that you are made of stronger stuff, and that you absolutely refuse to be dragged down into a deep depression because of the break up.
Okay, take a few days to heal a little - no-one expects you to be the life of the party so soon after you and your ex have parted company. But after that, force yourself to be in a happier frame of mind, and you might just succeed and get your ex back.
Now that everyone knows that you are single again, if you get invited out somewhere, then go. Get yourself dressed as if you are going out with a purpose, then do that, and enjoy every minute of your freedom. Don't even think of sliding back into a state of depression - keep telling yourself that it will NOT help your situation at all.
If your friends are doing nothing that really gets to you, then find something else to do that will keep you busy and make you happy. Of course your ex will get to hear all about this - and this is great - he/she has to know that you are not waiting around until he/she is ready to talk to you.
By this time, you will be totally over the break up and ready to handle anything that comes your way. If your ex makes contact with you, be friendly, but don't be available. He/she must understand that it is not the be-all and end-all of your existence to get your ex back.
If your ex is still interested in you, then let him/her contact you - if not, then it doesn't matter then, does it?
It Isn't Over Yet! With the Right Attitude to the Break Up, You Can Still Get Your Ex Back!
