subject: Dating Advice For Men- How To Get Past The Friend Zone With Women [print this page] Fellas, we all have been in a spot with a female where we really wanted to be with her intimately and what usually will occur?
Nothing at all.
You wind up being classified as one of her friends, a line gets set that she will never cross, and you end up spending countless hours pining away for a woman that will NEVER be yours. Sure there are occasions where a woman will cross that line, but those are usually infrequent. In films, things may get shown a bit differently, however, I would hope that you are more than aware that this is NOT always how it happens in the "real" world.
How do you go BEYOND the friend zone with a woman?
Well, unless you are the kind of guy that likes to torture himself and end up with an uphill climb the entire way, you have to get it right from the beginning. From the start, you have to be able to approach a woman with the goal of not trying to be friends, but letting her know your true intentions. You want to date her. You want to go to bed with her. You dream about feeling her hands explore your body and pleasuring you in bed, not hanging out at the bistro for lunch and coffee, mixed with a bit of gossip.
You have to take a stand!
Coming off as a guy that gives off the impression that all he desires is friendship with a woman while you really are looking to get a little more, does not make you a genuine guy. All it does is make you a little less honest and upfront than a man that has no qualms at all about letting a woman know what he truly wants. You have to go beyond that nice guy image of trying to be a woman's friend and move into the mindset of taking a stand, flirting with her, teasing her, and not falling into the trap of shying away.
See, most men will try to be a woman's buddy to eliminate the possibility of rejection.
It feels safer at first, more comfortable. However, the truth comes out in how you feel when you hear her talking about another guy, when you see her dating other men, and when you have to face the reality that she thinks of you as nothing more than a "pal."
A pal is not someone that she is going to cross the line with. Women usually have a very strict rule within themselves and crossing that line is not something that most will do, definitely not casually.
