subject: Just How Long Should You Stay Away Before You Can Try To Get Your Ex Back? [print this page] This is the one question that is almost impossible to answer. Time away from each other is very helpful to bring to people together again after a break up, but just how much time is necessary, is anyone's guess. I can tell you though, you will need a lot of patience and determination if you want to succeed in getting your ex back.
You see, each and every one of us is different. We all have certain likes and dislikes, difference opinions, and different needs, and so forth. It is exactly the same in this situation. Yes, we all need time to get over a break up, but just how much time each person needs is entirely up to the individual. You can only try getting your ex back when you and your ex as well, are in the right frame of minds, and more willing to talk to each other.
Some people need a lot of time to get over the trauma of a failed relationship, whilst others seem to be able to cope exceptionally well, and seem to simply shrug it off and get on with their lives. So, while it IS very necessary that you and your ex take time away from each other, it will definitely happen in different degrees, so it is best to concentrate on yourself for the time being.
Your ex will get over the bad feelings in his/her own time, so allow yourself to get over them in your own time as well. What really helps when you are going through this phase after a break up is to keep yourself as busy as possible.
Just make sure that whatever you do is something that will make you feel happy. Or, if you are with people, that they are the kind of people who will encourage you, and help you to feel positive.
You will know exactly when you are feeling a whole lot better - back to your old self again. However, before you try getting your ex back, talk to your ex's friends, and find out for sure whether he/she is over the break up or not. Then you take the next step and decide what your next plan of action will be. Good luck!
Just How Long Should You Stay Away Before You Can Try To Get Your Ex Back?
