subject: Although It Sound Ridiculous, Applying The No Contact Rule Is An Effective Way To Get Your Ex Back! [print this page] The only thing that you want more than anything in the world since the relationship ended, is to have your ex back in your arms again. Because of this, you have been trying for days to make contact with your ex, but with no luck at all. You are devastated! Now you're confused, because here you have someone telling you to apply a not contact rule to try and get your ex back!
Yes, it is confusing, especially since all that you want right now is to be with your ex. Being in love with someone and showing them that you love them has to involve contact - close contact - so how on earth can no contact help in bringing two people together again?
I can understand why this is so confusing to you. You are absolutely right when you say that contact is important when you want to show someone that you love them. However, this applies to an already happy relationship, and does not apply to your situation - a recent relationship failure.
Your case is different, in that you and your ex are angry with each other right now, and also full of pain and resentment after the break up, because f the enormous argument that you had. Any contact between the two of you right now will spell disaster - you will only have another argument, that's all.
But, if you are both patient, stay away from each other for a while, and give each other some time to get over all those negative feelings, then you will have a much better chance of talking things over and hopefully getting back together again.
You will both be thinking rationally again, and will be able to face each other without the hurt, anger, and resentment that you both felt after the break up, and will be able to talk to each other a lot more calmly.
So, in your case, right after the break up, using the no contact rule to get over the break up first, is great. It might be confusing, but it works so effectively, that you and your ex could quite possibly get back together again, and have as much contact with each other as you want to.
Although It Sound Ridiculous, Applying The No Contact Rule Is An Effective Way To Get Your Ex Back!
