subject: Do You Want to Get Her Back? Then Don't Try Too Hard if You Don't Want to Push Her Away! [print this page] Anyone who has been through a break up, and there are millions of us, realize that your life is empty without your ex, and the only thing that will make you happy is to get her back. We've all been there, and know the heartache and desperation you are going through.
However, as determined as you are to get her back, don't make the huge mistake of pushing her too far, or you will probably damage all chances of ever getting back together with her again. In other words, stop calling her constantly and sending her text messages and emails. It's probably driving her mad!
This is not determination that you are showing, but total stupidity. Every call that you make to her, and each message that she gets from you, pushes her one step further away from you. Carry on like this, and you will probably find a sheriff of the court at your door to serve you with a restraining order!
Even though you want to get her back so badly, show her some respect by accepting her choice to stay away from you for now. Try to understand that she is feeling this way because you hurt her badly and the fury that she feels towards you at the moment prevents her from making any contact with you.
She knows that if you get together now it will be a disaster - the hurt and anger that she feels right now far outweighs her love for you, and there WILL be another argument. Call it women's intuition if you will, but she does realize that you shouldn't talk to each other yet.
Follow her example and just put any idea of contact with her right out of your mind for now. Give her time to get over the hurt and anger, and there will be a time when she will start missing you, and will make contact with you.
When that happens, THEN you can talk to her about the break up, the things that you said to her and how you're going to fix them. At least then she will listen to what you have to say to her, and you will have a chance to get her back into your life again.
Do You Want to Get Her Back? Then Don't Try Too Hard if You Don't Want to Push Her Away!
