subject: So Your Ex Is Dating Someone Else? Don't Give Up Yet - There Is STILL A Chance To Win Your Ex Back! [print this page] Finding out that your partner of a long time is involved with someone else very soon after your break up is distressing. However, even though your ex is dating someone else right now, if you are patient and determined enough, then there IS a possibility for you to win your ex back.
It all depends on how you handle the situation. Of course your first thought is to call your ex and let him/her know in no uncertain terms just how you feel about the fact that there is a new someone around. But, I can tell you for sure that all you will achieve by doing this is the satisfaction of having your say. You will feel relieved once you have those feelings off your chest, but it will only push any chances to win your ex back a whole lot further away from you! So, what IS the right thing to do?
Well first of all, relax. The new relationship might be the real deal, but there is also a very good chance that it is a rebound relationship as well. The only thing is, no one, not even your ex will know for sure until some time has passed whether it is truly a solid relationship or not.
So the best thing that you can do right now is to just leave your ex alone and carry on with your own life. If you happen to bump into your ex and his/her new partner, even though you might feel like running away, don't - put a smile on your face, and simply greet your ex, and introduce yourself to his/her partner as a friend of your ex's.
You are reacting to this situation in a very mature way and, whether your ex is in a solid relationship or not, he/she will admire you for doing this. This will definitely be a point in your favor should you have the chance to try and get your ex back into your life again.
If it is a rebound relationship it will end soon and you will have an opportunity to try and win your ex back. However, if the relationship is real, then it would be best for you to accept it, and build your own life again.
So Your Ex Is Dating Someone Else? Don't Give Up Yet - There Is STILL A Chance To Win Your Ex Back!
