subject: Trying To Get Your Ex Back? Be Nonchalant About The Break Up - It Works! [print this page] The one way that you will ruin any chance of getting your ex back, is to make calls day and night, send text messages begging and pleading to be taken back, and generally making a complete pest of yourself. This type of reaction from you will only make your ex resent you and find you extremely unattractive because of your weak, pathetic behavior.
What could work very well and possibly make you succeed in getting your ex back, is if you react in a nonchalant way to your situation. Even if this is not the way you feel, PRETEND that the break up doesn't bother you at all. If your ex thinks that the break up has no effect on you whatsoever, it could possibly make your ex regret breaking up with you.
Start by not sitting at home moping about your broken relationship - get yourself dressed as if you mean business, and get out there with your friends for some fun. Of course your friends are also going to be amazed by your attitude. You have just broken up for crying out loud, so how can you be so calm about the whole thing!
If they try to get explanations out of you, then give them what they want - tell them how good it feels to be single again and how much you are looking forward to having plenty of fun. Don't even mention your ex - it doesn't bother you that you aren't together anymore remember.
Flirt with other people, go out on dates if anyone asks you out, in fact accept any invitations that come your way - you have to make up for the time you lost while you were in your relationship. Keep your painful emotions to yourself and give the impression that you are really enjoying your life to the full.
All of these stories are going to get back to your ex - this is big news, and your ex needs to be told as soon as possible. Your ex is going to be the one who is bothered - your attitude is totally unexpected and he/she really wants to know what is going on.
Now that you have the reaction you are looking for in your ex, grab the opportunity, and go all out to try getting your ex back.
Trying To Get Your Ex Back? Be Nonchalant About The Break Up - It Works!
