subject: Dating Turn-offs [print this page] In the dating game, the 3 biggest turn-ons and turn-offs for a woman may vary due to the age of the woman. For a mature woman, one who has seen what the world is about, I think the biggest turn-offs are easier to figure out than the 3 biggest turn-ons for a woman.
I think that one of the biggest turn-ons for a woman is a man who has a job and takes care of himself. Likewise a man who doesn't have a job or at least the ambition to get one is one of the biggest turn-offs. It doesn't have to be an exciting career, but a good honest job makes a man sexy. Another turn-on for woman is good looks along with good grooming. Brad Pitt or George Clooney looks aren't required although they are nice. A man who takes care of himself is much nicer to cuddle up to than the guy who looks like he is afraid of water.
This leads into a major turn-off for a woman, poor hygiene. Who wants to be close to someone who has had a few too many the last few days and forgot to bathe? If he doesn't care about himself, how is he going to care about you? This leads into the last of my 3 biggest turn-ons and turn-offs for a woman.
Spoiled men are another turn-off for women, along with those who act abusive. This type man can sometimes be hard to spot. They want a lot but aren't willing to give at all. Young women may at first be turned on by this type of man, but those of us who have met a few learn to steer clear. The bad boy seems like fun at first, but they are entirely too emotionally draining to waste your time on as you get older.
The biggest turn-on for a woman is a man who has a great personality, someone who enjoys life and respects the feelings of others. This is the man that you can have a relationship with, one that will last as youth quickly fades. This man does the right thing because it is the right thing to do he isn't afraid of hard work and will stand by your side when the going gets rough. This is a man you can be proud of and that can be a great turn-on for a woman.
