subject: Ultimate Tips on How to Get Him Back – What NOT to Do to Win Him Back! [print this page] If you need tips on how to get him back, what you do NOT do is just as important as what you actually do. So many times, women let their emotions take over and simply act on instinct. This is normal, but it can lead us down the wrong road when we want to get him back for good.
NEVER Become a Stalker
We all know the type. Her boyfriend breaks up with her and she starts texting, calling, emailing or "accidentally" showing up where she knows he will be. This is a bit instinctual or at least if feels like it. We have this NEED to interact with him and we do outrageous things that we normally would never do.
Solution: If you want him back, you will obviously have to interact with him. But learn the right things to say to get him back.
NEVER Try to Make Him Jealous by Throwing Yourself at Other Men
This sounds like a great plan, right? And there is no reason we can't make him a little jealousbut there is a fine line between making him see what a catch you are and sleeping around with random guys. Think about what you're doing because sleeping around to make him jealous, just makes you cheap. Plus, you are using a guy and Karma will come back to you on that one.
Solution: Have some self respect. He can think there are other guys attracted to you, but don't make it obvious or throw it into his face. Understand the right things to do or say to get him back without sacrificing your self respect.
NEVER Let Yourself Look Desperate
You probably feel desperate, heartbroken and rejected. And that's to be expected. But imagine what you look like from his perspectiveis desperate really that attractive? Now picture yourself at your best, with your head held high. Which would you choose if you where him?
Solution: Increase your self confidence and self image. There are great programs out there that will teach you how to be your best self at all times. Now that's attractive!
Ultimate Tips on How to Get Him Back What NOT to Do to Win Him Back!