subject: Weigh Up The Pros And Cons And Make Sure You Want Your Ex Back For The Right Reasons! [print this page] Your mind is in a total turmoil since the break up. People talk to you, but you don't hear what they say, things happen during the day that would normally excite you, but now you're absolutely oblivious to them. You are totally shattered after the break up and you want your ex back.
Before you can even think of tackling the task of trying to get your ex back, you need to relax - you will achieve absolutely nothing in the state that you are in at the moment. People might be giving you some very good advice, and because you are so down and upset, you are hearing nothing that they are telling you.
If it takes a few days for you to calm down, then this is okay, so don't try to rush things along. Once you know that you are more relaxed and more capable of concentrating on what needs to be done then go ahead.
You want your ex back, and that is understandable - but, do you want to try and get your ex back for the right reasons? Do you still really love your ex as deeply as you did when you first started dating, or is it simply because you are feeling lonely now that your ex isn't with you anymore?
The only way you are going to know what your true feelings are for your ex is by giving yourself time to figure this out properly. At the moment your emotions are allowing you to imagine that it is love that you are feeling, so give these emotions enough time to subside, and then your true feelings will appear.
Don't sit and wait for this to happen though - carry on with your life - go out and do things that will make you happy. Do this for a couple of weeks. If, after all that time, you are a little happier, but there is still this hankering for your ex, then it is obvious, you DO still love your ex - you want your ex back in your life again.
Now you're ready to try and get your ex back - you know exactly how you feel, and you are ready to do whatever it takes to get your ex back into your life again.
Weigh Up The Pros And Cons And Make Sure You Want Your Ex Back For The Right Reasons!
