subject: Three Rules For Dating Asian Women [print this page] For those of you who are into exotic women, I want to give a few tips to help you with dating Asian women. The reality is that dating Asian women requires a specialized approach.
Now let's get into it. This first word of advice on attracting Asian women might possibly appear a little self evident, but it's extremely necessary for you to present cleanliness and very good personal hygiene when you're around Asian women. They are big on this! They genuinely believe in the saying, "cleanliness is next to Godliness."
If you hang around a lot of Asian girls, it's obvious how much they value hygiene and maintaining a presentable appearance. Asian women typically won't leave their house without first fixing their hair and makeup, and if they're just going to run a quick errand. (Western women, on the other hand, will often just put on a baseball cap and a baggy sweatshirt.)
The bottom line is, when you are going out to meet Asian women or spend time with the girl you like, you need to make extra sure that you look clean, fresh and presentable. With Asian women, it's better for you to be a bit overdressed; you never want to be underdressed.
Especially when you're out on dates with Asian women! You should always assume that an Asian girl is going to show up looking her best. If she shows up wearing a classy dress and you walk in wearing shorts and a tee-shirt, you can forget about ever seeing that girl again.
Extra Rule: If you've got facial hair, I suggest you get rid of it. Women (and not just Asian girls) nearly always agree that men look best when they are clean-shaven. This is especially true with Asian women because the men of their culture almost never have facial hair, and their skin is very soft and sensitive. They don't want to rub up against stubble. So if a beard, moustache or goattee has been part of your "look" for a while, go ahead and shave it off. Make a fresh start. Trust me, it's going to feel good.
My next tip is that you've got to let Asian girls know that you're an organized person who has his life totally under control. Asian women do not understand the idea of being a "slacker," or trying to "find your purpose" in life. In Asian cultures, the men work hard and have a clear sense of purpose. They are also self-sufficient. Anything else is considered abnormal and unattractive. So if you are sharing an apartment with a slob roommate, or you hate your job and are trying to figure out what you really want to do in life, these are things you'll need to conceal from Asian women (and hopefully you will address these problems and get them fixed soon).
This does not mean that you need to make tons of money, or have some impressive high-powered career. It simply means that you must be able to show women that you're organized. If you live in an apartment, you should keep it clean. (If possible, hire a maid to come in once a week and make the place spotless.)
You should not be saddled with a lot of debt. And when you're hanging out with Asian women, you should mention your plans for the future and ambitions. She will then imagine herself as part of your future.
Essentially, Western women are more likely to tolerate a guy who is a "slacker" or a "bad boy" who leads a disorderly lifestyle, or can't hold a job. Asian women are turned off by this type of guy. It's very important for them to be with a man who is stable and secure, and can make them feel the same way.
By radiating calmness, masculine confidence, and a sense that you are in control of your life and destiny, you will become highly attractive to Asian women. This is an excellent starting point. In my next article I'm will talk about some more specific strategies and skills for dating Asian women, including approach tactics. I'll even give you some very helpful advice to help you meet lovely Asian girls on the Internet (and how to blow away all the other guys who are competing for the hottest girls).
