subject: How to Attract Women - Don't Ask For Pity From Her [print this page] If I said to you, you don't want to ask for pity from a woman, you would probably agree with that statement and kind of assume that you never do. However, when you expect a woman to be attracted to you because you have been nice to her, or because it always seems like the good guys get the shaft, then that is exactly what you are asking her to do. To pity you.
Most guys don't really think of it in this way, but that is how it ends up coming across a lot of the time. Be honest, when you put on the nice guy act, it's because you are expecting her to feel like she has to be attracted to you, because of all of the nice things that you do.
Problem is, that is not how attraction happens.
Is it a good thing to be a nice guy? Sure it is, to some extent. However, when you use that nice guy act to try and get her to like you, then it really isn't because you are just a nice guy, it is because you are trying to manipulate her into liking you. Don't ask for that kind of pity, because it is not going to make her want you.
Instead, you have to make her feel attracted to you because of the qualities you possess.
Women are attracted to guys more for the qualities that they possess than anything else. Guys that seem to come across like jerks to you, come across as confident, and like they know what they want to her. They seem like the kind of guy that can take charge and don't have to rely on her approval to make decisions.
When a woman pities you, it's not going to make her want you, it will just make her feel sorry for you.
When was the last time that you heard a woman describe meeting a guy and say that she fell for him because she pitied him? Probably never, because that just does not create that feeling of attraction in a woman.
You need to be able to trigger her attraction, not make her feel obligated into liking you.
How to Attract Women - Don't Ask For Pity From Her
