subject: Getting Your Ex Back - Don't Linger On Bad Memories If You Want To Make Your Ex Want You Back! [print this page] Obviously you are sad and very depressed at the moment - your relationship has just fallen apart. You can't think of anything else at any time of the day - all you want is to make your ex want you back. However, you can't seem to move forward - every time you think about that argument you had, you become more depressed and feel even more hopeless.
Your problem is that you spend too much time thinking about that awful argument you and your ex had. You are wallowing in self-pity and are making yourself more miserable in the process. Now I know that it is extremely difficult to drag yourself out of this morbid state, but if you want to make your ex want you back, you are going to HAVE to get a hold on yourself.
Another thing, because of the way you're behaving, you are dragging other people down with you as well. If your friends invite you out and you decline saying that you are too depressed, they become unhappy too. Your family might want to help you by taking you out with them again, if you decline because of your misery, they are left feeling helpless.
Everyone is trying to help you because they care - grab this opportunity with both hands, and let them help you to get out of the depths of depression. Once you are feeling better, you will think positively, and your chances of getting your ex back will improve dramatically.
Even though it is a huge effort, do it - get yourself looking great again, call up your friends and tell them that you are ready to face the world again, and then go out and enjoy yourself. Do this as often as possible and you will be feeling like your old self again very soon.
Your spirits will be lifted, you will be out of that state of misery that you were in, and will look at life with a whole new perspective. Also, because of your enthusiasm, it will show on you - you will be positively radiant - game for anything that gets thrown your way!
Your ex will get to hear about your transformation - how great you look, and what a fantastic person you are, even better than before. This is positive news to your ex, news that will be attractive to him/her, and will probably make your ex want you back again.
Getting Your Ex Back - Don't Linger On Bad Memories If You Want To Make Your Ex Want You Back!
