subject: Anti Aging: Being Dumped For A Younger Twit! [print this page] One of the most humiliating outcomes of a romantic relationship is being left for a "younger model." Stereotypically, this usually happens to women, but it can happen to men, as well. Depending on your outlook, being left by your partner because of your age can either be devastating or actually "not that bad." In the first instance, the very fact that getting older is inevitableand therefore not really your faultmakes the break-up seem even more awful and unjust. In the second case, you can console yourself with the fact that you have not actually harmed your partner, and that he/she is probably much more at fault than you are.
Of course, somebody who ends their relationship with you simply because you are no longer "young enough" is probably not worth hanging on to. However, it cannot be denied either that the implications of growing older can sometimes put some strain on a relationship. We refer here to the fact that your levels of energy, immunity, and general health tend to decrease as you age. This can impact the way you handle your relationship. After all, simply making a living these daysespecially in these times of economic crisisis stressful enough. One can actually become simply too tired to put in the necessary time and work to maintain a relationship. Keeping up your youthful energy and vitality can help you, and not just in the sense of making you physically/visually attractive to your partner. Maintaining healthy habits and taking advantage of safe, effective anti-aging products will help you slow the inevitable process of aging and losing your health.
However, no matter what your point of view, getting over the end of a relationship can be difficult. Part of the recovery after a break-up is regaining confidence in yourself. It is common for some people to feel extremely undesirable, especially if they were the ones "dumped" by their partners. You can suddenly feel old and ugly. Convincing yourself that you are worthy of a good partner is one of the most important steps in your emotional recovery process.
Unfortunately, some people take this recovery too far, or in the wrong direction. They can undergo dangerous diet regimens or surgery procedures, at least partly because they have experienced painful romantic rejection. There is nothing wrong with taking steps to make yourself feel attractive, but it is important to take a balanced, cautious approach as well. For one, quick-fix results such as surgery have their risks and side effects. Less drastic measures, such as proper diet, exercise, and availing of effective supplements are often ultimately the better way to go, even if they may not work as quickly as you might like.
Whether you are trying to prevent a breakup or get over one that has already happened, maintaining your youth and health can be very important. However, just be sure that a broken heart does not overrule your rationality. Holding on to a relationship might seem like a matter of life and death, but do not risk your own health and well-being in the process.