subject: Understanding Women: Things You Never Knew [print this page] If you are interested in understanding women in order to win over the lady of your dreams, let me tell you, there are not hard and fast rules that will get you to your destination. You really need to apply yourself by knowing the basics and then working upon them. Simply put, if you play on your strengths in accordance with some of the things I am about to mention, there is nobody that can stop you from what you desire.
The basic prerequisite to understanding women is to know what they want at the most fundamental level. The answer is affection. Yes, that's it. They don't need money, expensive cars, designer clothes, etc. It's just a few simple things that any man can provide expression of their love, compassion, attention and protection and this is why very often even an average Joe can have a supermodel as his girlfriend. It's all about knowing the other person's requirements, and fulfilling them! However, this does not mean that you get all possessive on her, i.e., start infiltrating her privacy, knowing who she hangs out with, imposing restrictions on her, etc. This is something that will surely put you off her forever, even though she might be madly in love with you.
In order to ensure that you have a relationship with the person of your dreams, the process of understanding women must never end. In other words, you have to ensure that just because you have her attention, or even love, does not mean that you can ever take her for granted. You have to continue winning her heart with your words, actions and gestures. Remember, everyone strives for something new every now and then, and unless you can provide that change from everyday routine, your relationship is going to be just 'run of the mill' and has high chances of the love fading away.
